{"id":22789,"date":"2026-05-14T18:08:10","date_gmt":"2026-05-14T21:08:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/co-compassion.com\/?p=22789"},"modified":"2026-05-14T18:15:00","modified_gmt":"2026-05-14T21:15:00","slug":"affect-regulation-and-the-origin-of-the-self","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/co-compassion.com\/sv\/affect-regulation-and-the-origin-of-the-self\/","title":{"rendered":"Affect Regulation and the Origin of the Self (Allan N. Schore)\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"22789\" class=\"elementor elementor-22789\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7b85d4ef e-flex e-con-boxed sc_inner_width_none sc_layouts_column_icons_position_left e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"7b85d4ef\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0e2f433 sc_fly_static elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0e2f433\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.21.0 - 26-05-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<!-- wp:trx-addons\/video {\"cover\":18781,\"cover_url\":\"https:\/\/co-compassion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/background-5-copyright.jpg\",\"link\":\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/23966092\"} \/--><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Introduction<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p data-ccp-border-bottom=\"0px none #000000\" data-ccp-padding-bottom=\"0px\" data-ccp-border-between=\"0px none #000000\" data-ccp-padding-between=\"0px\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Before a child can form a single conscious memory, the architecture of their emotional life is already being built. Allan N. Schore&#8217;s landmark work in interpersonal neurobiology shows that the capacity for self-regulation, our lifelong ability to manage stress and emotion, is not something we develop in isolation. It is sculpted through the earliest relational experiences we have, long before language arrives. What makes this book so relevant to Compassionate Inquiry<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a9\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">(CI) is the way it reframes trauma entirely. Rather than treating it as a &#8220;bad memory&#8221; or a cognitive distortion, Schore\u00a0demonstrates\u00a0that trauma is a fundamental disruption of the biological and energetic processes of the developing brain. When a CI practitioner asks a client to\u00a0observe\u00a0a recent trigger and note the specific sequence of events that preceded it, they are, in essence, guiding\u00a0the client back to the precise moments where early affect regulation broke down. Understanding Schore&#8217;s framework helps clients\u00a0recognise\u00a0that their most intense emotional reactions are deeply wired biological responses, not character flaws, and that recognition alone can begin to lift the weight of shame.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f71aa82 sc_fly_static elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f71aa82\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<!-- wp:trx-addons\/video {\"cover\":18781,\"cover_url\":\"https:\/\/co-compassion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/background-5-copyright.jpg\",\"link\":\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/23966092\"} \/--><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<h5><span class=\"TextRun SCXW149464115 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW149464115 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">Summary of the Book<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP Selected SCXW149464115 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">Schore&#8217;s comprehensive text details how the infant&#8217;s developing right hemisphere, the part of the brain responsible for processing nonverbal and emotional information, is\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">literally sculpted<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0by the primary caregiver&#8217;s own capacity for affect regulation. Psychological trauma, he argues, is not merely a wound in the mind but a disruption of biological energy in the growing brain. The book makes a vigorous case that human beings are fundamentally social creatures, biologically malleable and shaped from the very beginning by their immediate emotional environment. When caregivers are\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SpellingErrorV2Themed SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">misattuned<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">, absent, or a source of terror, the\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">infant&#8217;s<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0nervous system cannot properly wire the circuits needed for soothing and emotional processing. The result is a lifelong vulnerability in\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">maintaining<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">physiological<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0balance.<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP Selected SCXW238490884 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><span class=\"TextRun SCXW181763477 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW181763477 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">The Right Hemisphere is Socially Constructed<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP Selected SCXW181763477 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW12032903 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">Our earliest interactions are\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SpellingErrorV2Themed SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">internalised<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0as permanent, physiological modifications in the nervous system. Schore\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">demonstrates<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0that the right brain, dominant in the first years of life, relies entirely on the mother&#8217;s (or primary caregiver&#8217;s) right brain to learn how to process both stress and joy. Whether we come to experience the world as\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">a safe haven<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0or a dangerous battlefield is decided by this early neurological wiring, long before we have any conscious say in the matter.<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP Selected SCXW12032903 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4f08b02 sc_fly_static elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4f08b02\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<!-- wp:trx-addons\/video {\"cover\":18781,\"cover_url\":\"https:\/\/co-compassion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/background-5-copyright.jpg\",\"link\":\"https:\/\/vimeo.com\/23966092\"} \/--><!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-543f8d7 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent e-lazyloaded\" data-id=\"543f8d7\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3516daa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3516daa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<h5 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW44942192 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW44942192 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">Trauma is a Failure of Autonomic Regulation<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP Selected SCXW44942192 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d90610 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent e-lazyloaded\" data-id=\"7d90610\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f087fa1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f087fa1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">Developmental trauma is not simply a psychological issue.\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">It represents severe disturbances in the brain&#8217;s adaptive capacity to regulate distress.<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0When a client in a CI session is invited to notice whether their sensations, emotions, and impulses\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">carry<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\"> the signature of a fight, flight, or freeze response, they\u00a0 are\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">observing<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\"> precisely the autonomic dysregulation that Schore describes. Without a regulating caregiver present during development, the <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun ContextualSpellingAndGrammarErrorV2Themed SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">infant&#8217;s<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">nervous\u00a0 system <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">remains<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0trapped in chronic high alert or collapsed freeze, and that vulnerability does not simply fade with age.<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW240308543 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h5><span class=\"TextRun SCXW221220620 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW221220620 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">Healing Requires Physiological Attunement, Not Just Words<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP Selected SCXW221220620 BCX0\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:200,&quot;335559740&quot;:276}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h5>\n<p><span class=\"TextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\" data-ccp-parastyle-defn=\"{&quot;ObjectId&quot;:&quot;994c9a8f-9db1-5adc-af10-cba5ef8295e7|1&quot;,&quot;ClassId&quot;:1073872969,&quot;Properties&quot;:[469775450,&quot;Br\u00f6dtext&quot;,201340122,&quot;2&quot;,134233614,&quot;true&quot;,469778129,&quot;Brdtext&quot;,335572020,&quot;1&quot;,469777841,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469777842,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;,469777844,&quot;Cambria&quot;,469769226,&quot;Cambria,Arial Unicode MS&quot;,335551500,&quot;0&quot;,268442635,&quot;22&quot;,335551547,&quot;1033&quot;,335559740,&quot;276&quot;,201341983,&quot;0&quot;,335559739,&quot;200&quot;,469777843,&quot;Arial Unicode MS&quot;]}\">Intellectual insight, however hard-won, is rarely enough on its own to produce lasting change. Schore&#8217;s research\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">validates<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a0the foundational stance of Compassionate Inquiry<\/span><\/span><span class=\"TextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" lang=\"DE-DE\" xml:lang=\"DE-DE\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">\u00a9<\/span><\/span><span class=\"TextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">: the therapist must function as a safe, regulated emotional anchor. When the therapist\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">remains<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\"> reactive or emotionally ungrounded, the physiological attunement <\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\">required<\/span><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW26952632 BCX0\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Br\u00f6dtext\"> for genuine healing is disrupted. 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